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 19:06 | 7/Jul/2008 | 2 Comment(s)

chal pade apni raah pe akele

yaadein to resham si un lamhon ki jisme
kabhi hum beh gaye the
saath saath kuch pal
kisi roz hum jee gaye the

waqt ka ek daur wo bhi tha
tere bina jeena mushkil
tu hee ek humnawa tha jab
honth bhi gar see liya karte the
aapas mein kuch baatein
hum phir bhi kar liya karte the

ek daur aaj aisa bhi aaya hai
masroofiyat ka mahaul chhaya hai
saans lene ki fursat na ho gar
to kise yaad karen
kiske paas hai itna waqt
ki meri awaaz ka intezaar kare?

tumne to haale dil kehna chhod diya
ek humari hee aadat thi ke
jab kuch pal sahaare hote
ek sadaa tum tak zaroor
pahuncha diya karte the

khush rehna
aur yaadon ko dhundhla dena
waqt naam ka marham lagaa dena

tera saath gawaara na hua
tu humara hoke bhi humara na hua
meri ab har sadaa mere halak mein quaid hai
ki
aaj se zauq bhi
chal pade apni raah pe akele

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 19:03 | 7/Jul/2008 | 0 Comment(s)

Gunguna sa khwab hai yeh


Gunguna sa khwab hai yeh
Meetha sa khwab hai yeh


Gunguna sa khwab hai yeh
Meetha sa khwab hai yeh
Justajoo hai, tamanna hai isme
Tanha sa khwab hai yeh

Neele shab ka intezaar hai
Karwato ka silsila hai
Adhura chaand hai, sitaron ki tauba hai isme
Bechain sa khwab hai yeh

Kahin muskurahat ki aahat hai
Kahin kangan ka khilkhilana
Ulfat hai, intezaar hai isme
Haqeeqat sa khwab hai yeh

Qurbat (togetherness) hai, Furqat (seperation) hai isme
Saaton rang hai, banjar zameen hai isme
Khudi (pride) hai isme, bekhudi (detachment) hai isme
Tanhaiya hai, izhaar hai isme
Gunguna sa khwab hai yeh
Meetha sa khwab hai yeh

 

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 12:05 | 30/Jun/2008 | 0 Comment(s)

Suna he pyar karne wale ajib hote hai,
khushi ke badle gam nasib hote hai,
mere dost mohabbat naa karna kabhi,
kyun ke pyaar karne wale bade badnaseeb hote hai...
Pyaar karne walo ki kismat buri hoti hai,
har mulakat judai ki ghadi hoti hai,
waqt mile to rishte ki kitab padh lena
,
DOSTI har rishtey se badi hoti hai..

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Friendship

Friendship
-=-=-=-=-=-= -
Unknown

Friendship needs no studied phrases,
Polished face, or winning wiles;
Friendship deals no lavish praises,
Friendship dons no surface smiles.

Friendship follows nature's diction,
Shuns the blandishments of art,
Boldly severs truth from fiction,
Speaks the language of the heart.

Friendship favors no condition,
Scorns a narrow-minded creed,
Lovingly fulfills its mission,
Be it word or be it deed.

Friendship cheers the faint and weary,
Makes the timid spirit brave,
Warns the erring, lights the dreary,
Smooths the passage to the grave.

Friendship-pure, unselfish friendship,
All through life's allotted span,
Nurtures, strengthens, widens, lengthens,
Man's relationship with man.

 

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 17:14 | 28/Jun/2008 | 0 Comment(s)

DIL KI AWAAZ KO  IZHAR KEHTE HAI,JHUKI NIGAHO KO IKRAR KEHTE HAI,SIRF PANE KA NAAM ISHK NAHI,KUCH KHONE KO BHI PYAR KEHTE HAI!!

 

 

 

 

 

((LOVE))Love is not to say,
But to understand.
Love is not to show,
But to feel inside.
Love is not to find faults,
But to make the best.
Love is not to demand,
But to sacrifice.
Love is not to hurt,
But to take care of.
Love is not blind,
But it doesn’t need to see.

 

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 16:59 | 28/Jun/2008 | 0 Comment(s)

 

Someone asked me to describe "YOU" only in two words.He thought I would say "BEST FRIEND",But I simply smiled and said "NO COMPARISION"

 

Gate of memories will never close,how much we miss our friends no one knows,Days will pass like years and we will remember joyful memories in silent tears.

 

What is Friendship?

When you call a person by stupid name and they don't mind.

When they always get angry whenever u tell ur busy & can't reply.

When they tell u everything about themselves even if its d most embarassing thing ever...

When they come to see u whenever they get a chance.

When you argue with eachother on stupid things and end up laughing!!!

Enjoy!!!!

 

 

 

Ek din zindagi aise mukam pe pahuch jayegi.Dosti sirf yaado mein reh jayegi.

Har cup coffee yaad tumhari dilayegi aur haste haste aankhen phie num ho jayegi.

Office ke chamber mein classroom nazar aayegi,par chahne par bhi proxy nahi lag payegi.

Paisa to bahut hoga magar use lutane lutane ki wajah hi kho jayegi.

Jee le khulke is pal ko mere dost..kyoki zindagi in palo ko phir se nahi dohrayegi.

 

Value the feelings of people who have touched your heart becoz u never know when they will just walk out of your life and will never come back.

 

 

Valuing someone is not merely by seeing eachother every day.What counts is that somehow in our busy life we remember to say take care!you are precious.

 

 

 

Lafzon mein kuch bhi izhaar nahi karta,
Matlab ye nahi k mein tujhe pyar nahi karta,


Chahta hoon main tujhe aaj bhi par,
Teri soch mein apna waqt bekaar nahi karta,


Tamasha naa ban jaaye kahi mohabbat meri,
Isliye apne dard ko dikhaya nahi karta,


Jo kuch mila hai usi mein khush hoon main,
Tere liye khuda se taqraar nahi karta,


Par kuch to baat hai teri dosti mein yaar,
verna tujhse mein apni jindgi se bhi jayda pyar nahi karta..

 

 

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 16:58 | 28/Jun/2008 | 0 Comment(s)

Losing hair? Here's help..

Losing hair? Here's help.. 
 
After the age of 20, most of us suffer from hair loss to some degree. What we don't realise, however, is that with proper care, precautions and a healthy diet, half of our hair problems would be over.
 
Read on to find out how.

Some dos & don'ts:
 
~Identify your hair type:
 If your hair does not become greasy even after five days of your last shampoo, you have dry hair. Normal hair needs to be shampooed one or two times a week. More than a shampooings per week means you have oily hair.

~Use a shampoo that suits your hair type:
Avoid excessively drying shampoos for oily hair, as it may stimulate the scalp on the rebound to produce more oil. Instead, use a shampoo meant for normal hair. You can use it more frequently, even daily if needed. Frequent washing does NOT lead to hair loss.

~Oil once a week :
Olive oil or almond oil are your best options. Massage it in with your fingertips to boost scalp circulation. Don't leave in for more than one or two hours. Avoid hair oil if you have acne on your face and forehead.

~Conditioning:  
Use conditioners as per hair type:

Oily: a light or volumising conditioner.
Dry: a smoothening one or almond oil-based conditioner.
Rough: papaya or aloe vera conditioner. 
Dull: henna-based conditioner.
Don't apply conditioner to roots, use only on the ends and the hair shaft to avoid loss of volume. Special intensive repair conditioners need to be left on for 20 to 30 minutes under a hot towel wrap. Use collagen based conditioners for excessively treated, permed or straightened hair and colour-protecting conditioners for tinted hair.

~Comb when dry:
Wet hair is more prone to breakage due to rough handling than dry hair. So, after shampooing, don't rub vigorously with a towel -- simply pat dry or wrap the towel around your head and detangle gently, with fingers or a wide toothed comb. Brush and set only when dry.

~Brush upside down:
Bend over from your waist, let your hair hang down and brush from root to tip -- this adds volume to your hair. For oily hair, avoid brushing and use a comb instead, as the bristles stimulate the scalp to produce more oil.

~Do not use a hair dryer regularly:
Hair dryers tend to make hair brittle. In fact, 'hot comb alopecia' is a type of baldness caused due to overuse of hot rollers and blow dryers. If using one, attach a diffuser to your dryer and hold it at least 6 inches away from your hair. Stop when the hair is still slightly damp.

~Avoid using too many hair-styling products
Gels, waxes, sprays all add to the build-up of deposits on your scalp.

~Don't colour, perm or straighten your hair too frequently:
Repeated exposure to chemicals while colouring, perming or straightening could lead to permanent damage and loss of hair. Colouring should be done by a professional and always insist on a pre-colouring hair protective conditioner before applying colour.

~Keep stress under control:
Stress management -- whether its meditation, introspection, yoga or whatever you like -- is a must if you want to arrest hair fall.

~Use a hair pack once a week: 
Try this hair pack for glossy hair -- soak a handful of fenugreek (methi) seeds overnight and grind them. Mix with henna powder, honey and tea extract and apply for one to two hours on the hair before rinsing off.

For brittle hair, apply an egg white over your hair for 15 minutes and shampoo.

For dandruff, apply tea tree oil (available at shops selling essences and natural oils). Lemon juice or vinegar mixed with a spoon of olive oil can also be applied an hour before shampooing. Use 'Nizral' or 'Scalpe' shampoo once a fortnight or so.

~Feed your hair:
A high protein diet rich in pulses, egg whites and soybean is a must for healthy hair. Anaemia is a major cause of hair loss. So, up your iron intake with foods like spinach, mustard greens, jaggery and dates. Biotin and zinc supplements can also help.

~Seek medical help:
If you notice rapid hair loss of more than 50 to 60 hairs daily, consult a dermatologist immediately. Though 'familial baldness' can't be avoided, it can be slowed down and controlled if treated timely. Consult a doctor at the first sign of a receding hairline.

~Eight-week rule:
And, remember the eight-week rule: hair responds to any stimulus after eight weeks. So if you have suffered illness or stress two months back, the resulting hair fall would be manifesting now. Similarly, if you start treatment for hair loss today, it would take at least eight weeks for the results to show. So, be patient and persistent.

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 16:32 | 28/Jun/2008 | 0 Comment(s)

WRONG CALL

WRONG CALL

A Husband makes a Call to Hospital to enquire about his pregnant wife.
But accidentally the call went to a cricket stadium.

He asked what is the condition.
He died after what he heard.


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Guess What would be the reply .....

It is ...


7 are already out.





3 More will be out hopefully by lunch.



and.................................

























The first one was a DUCK
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 17:25 | 26/Jun/2008 | 2 Comment(s)

I remember, when I was a little child,
A dear friend came to me.
He had come in from the wild
And he made me feel so free.

When we would together play,
Only I ran around all the while.
He would stand in one place
And give me the world's sweetest smile.

I remember, when I was young
I had gorgeous long hair.
All the boys would come and talk to me,
My friend would just sit and stare.

When I was feeling low,
I cried and hugged him tight.
I would feel his warmth flow
As he hugged me back with all his might.

 

 

 

 

Aaj kiya phir se zikar kisi ne tumhara
Halke-halke se phir tum Yaad Aane lagi
Main phir se purani baaton ke samander main doob ne laga
Dil main ek baar phir tum utarne lagi
Palkoon ke darwaaze ko Band kiya maine jab
Aur ansoo ban ke tum aankhoon se behne lagi
Bebasi itni ke phir se mere haath uth gaye
Dubara khuda se tumko mangne ko
Zikar tumhara sun kar ek baar phir se
Mere jazbaat tumhari tamanna kerne lage
Bana ke tasveer teri mere zehan main
mare toote armaan roone lage
Paa ke tumhain khwaaboon main hum
Jaag ke phir tumhain khoone lage
Waada chahta hoon takdeer se ye
Ya tho tujhe mera bana de ya
Mujhe tu phir na yaad aaye

 

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 17:24 | 26/Jun/2008 | 1 Comment(s)

Shadows of you

 

 

 

In my moments of quiet on cold evenings

 

Thoughts of you wrap themselves around my shoulders

 

And it feels like it's the right thing

 

So I don't push them away

 

I bask in the warmth they offer me

 

Suddenly every thought seems to land at your smile

 

The belonging in your eyes haunts my nights

 

The familiarity of your touch lingers on my skin

 

I can't do without you and I can't do with you

 

I fret on all the "right" reasons we should not be "we"

 

But inside I believe that you are God's gift to me

 

Only God could help us "make love out of nothing at all…"

 

Shadows of you fall on my soul…

 

 

 

 

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 17:07 | 26/Jun/2008 | 2 Comment(s)

...found and lost...

When your hand found mine our conversation was muted…

 

For all the time we held hands, our fingers seemed to take over, and allow themselves to get closer..

 

They continued their discovery with a gentle squeeze of palms and caresses on nails…

 

We allowed our hands to do the talking…

 

When I finally looked back into your eyes, a lonely tear slid down my eye…

 

All my armors had given way and there I stood vulnerable…

 

In that moment in time, when we touched, nothing else seemed to matter

 

And once that moment had lived its life, we buried it under lots of things which are supposed to matter…

 

I think of you now and then, and I still find my heart spring with a comforting quiet..

 

We find ways to remain connected …

 

We don't look at each other as we did in that moment, any more…

 

We wanted to be "good" people…

 

I wonder so often what's better –

 

being virtuous and playing role model or

 

letting go of every rule in the book to discover us....

 

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